of cheating and relationships

Earlier today, I was on my way to Taft to meet up with a friend and start our new found habit of daily job hunting. While on the bus, I was listening to the radio and yes, Mo Twister is the man y'all. You want honest and witty answers for your questions regarding anything about life, just give them a call. You fail to get their interest, sorry for you.

From stupid questions, the topic suddenly changed to cheating while in a relationship.

A guy called narrating how active his sexual relationship with his wife is that they even do it in the office most of the time. That is because they were on the same building but they work for different companies.

"So what's the problem man?"

"My wife caught me cheating. I have a lot of discount and privilege cards to the motels (mot-mot) here in manila and my wife caught me cheating because she has this habit of arranging them in my wallet. So one day, she was outraged because the white card was supposed to be in the middle but instead, the black one was there."

"Oh man, sucks for you."

And so the discussion went on for a while. Although the guy was married, he has this urge of wanting to try new things from time to time (what a douche). Random callers said their opinions regarding the matter then suddenly there came another caller.

"Hi, Ahm, I caught my father sexting."

"What? Texting?"

"No, sexting."

"Ah, yeah, sex on text."

"So how old are you again?"

"Nine years old."

To quote Mo Twister, "This is the saddest situation that we ever had in our show." For a father to be caught by her young innocent daughter doing such a thing is so sad. What's wrong with the world?

"Oh my. Dear, did you tell anyone about this like your mom? Have you read anything graphic?"

"No. You know I'm just so mad right now. But I don't know what to do. I don't want my dad to leave. He's important for me."

"With whom is he doing this?"

"His secretary."

My heart then fell to pieces. I just couldn't take it. Even one of the DJ's mentioned that her friends were texting her and they were crying because of the situation that the child is having. Who wouldn't?

"So here's what I want you to do, just go take pictures of the messages from your dad's cellphone. Can you do that? Can you like sneak in and steal your dad's phone while they're sleeping?"

"Yes, but how will i take pictures?"

"Just use like your camera phone and take those pictures. I want you to go directly to your dad and tell him that: I know what you're doing and here are the evidences. I just want you to know that I'm so sad. Everything that you do gives me life's lessons. I look up to you so much Dad. Do you want me to be your next secretary?"

We sometimes fail to realize the impact of even small things that we do. We may not see it now but given this kind of scenario, aren't you going to think twice before cheating? What if the same thing happens to you? Won't you feel bad?

"One would always fall in love with his child specially its his daughter even if he may fall out of love with his wife."

The next callers were once again giving out their opinions. Mostly concerned people for the child and people thanking Mo for the advise he gave and how he handled the situation. And so a caller tried to change the topic.

"Hey I'm pro cheating!"

(in my head) what the?

"I mean, I'm keeping my options open. It doesn't mean that she's my girlfriend for now, we'd be together forever. Its okay right?"

"Do you have a sister?"

"Yes."

"So what if his boyfriend calls us up and says that he would bang every single chick that she sees even if she has a girlfriend. and that would be your sister."

How frustrating. Why does he even exist? You are in a relationship. A commitment. If you eventually fall out of love. Do the right thing first.